My exact thoughts. I am not unreasonable - a simple message saying "Sorry m8 - problems posting it today - will try to get it posted tomorrow or the day after - will let you know" - then this would never have happened.
Personally, I think he got a call off of Kristey@Vanguard - realised he was in hot water - told Kristey he'd sent it and that he'd given me the tracking details on P8ntballer (which was a lie) - called his wife and asked her to bag it up - will dash home hoping to send it out today for delivery tomorrow... but i bet it doesnt come as he has missed the late post.
I texted him saying if he hasn't actually sent it yet, to refund me instead as I have lost faith in him.
If he has posted it, I doubt it has all the things he said would be in it ie extra solenoid, o-rings etc
Probably bashed it about a bit too. Who knows?
See how I am thinking? Negatively because of this experience :/