Pete
Originally posted by ascutt
I am fairly certain it stems from his directly arrogant way of responding, it seems to jar me in the same way. Chris, you always post with an air of absolute authority - never opinion or subjecture, just straight 'know-it-all' fact. And you know what, sometimes that really gets up peoples noses.
People who think they are always right really annoy those of us that are.
(There's been a lot of talk about thread-jacking these days vis-à-vis the new regime. I personally think it's o.k. to take a slight parenthetic departure for a couple of posts as long as it doesn't become a full-fledged spin-off.)
I've mentioned in other contexts that I appreciate the Britishness of this forum because Brits tend to be able to have serious debate, keep it civilized and because of that not get bent out of shape, compared to many Americans. (Stereotypes, for sure, that have many exceptions.) I have had British friends and friends of other nationalilites accuse me and Americans in general (because our lack of diplomatic skills) of being know-it-alls, besserweiser. It may be a stereotype but there's truth to it.
I think the Brits can be argued with without them going ballistic if we use the conventions of civility. Just like it's possible to speak English in Paris if you begin by saying "Bonjour" and asking "Parlez-vous anglais?"and apologize for not speaking French.
If the tone seems arrogant or overbearing then we can see definite evidence of Brits getting bent out of shape. (Doh!)
Just some thoughts. In my humble opinion. What do you think?
So, Chris, sign up for my course in intercultural communication, dude! Or else!
Steve
PS. Corrected afterwards of an idiotic mistake.
SM