Plain and simple, I ain't black. But my daughter is half black, so you do the math and figure her mom's colour.
You have no idea how much **** modern day so called enlightened people still throw my way because of that. I ain't having it, not on this board, in exactly the same way that most people won't take personal slurs on these forums.
And Paul, yes a smiley does make a difference. At least he could claim to have made a joke. I have no problem with jokes, even racist ones at times. Most racist jokes I hear from non-whites. But every time it is clear that it is a joke, through body language and other non verbal communications. You don't have that on a forum, so you have to weigh your words carefully, because things are easily misinterpreted. So you have smileys, which don't come near to real bodylanguage, but it's at least something. So it still stands, he'd better show up soon, or he's gone.