thats quite alright Dusty, just lighten up. No-one here has any issues and if I can be comfortable as a 300lb black woman in a skinny white male dominated sport, then anything is possible.
When I say its dominated by skinny guys, I mean generally, not as a rule. Obviously there's still room for Loco and Chicago.
I notice you are in transition, might I ask from what, and into what? I know the name of a good surgeon in Manhattan who removed my 'Oprah Clap' arm flab last year. He's discreet and very reasonable.