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Kem

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Yes.

I have a foster brother who goes to one of these schools who has been diagnosed with ADHD and autism and I doubt there's anywhere better for him.
first of no offence to your foster brother but add and adhd are a load of crock and are just a way for people to label people who are actively more impulsive then normal people. I personally know 2 people who have been diagnosed with this disability simply because they were trouble makers at school, and yet they are perfectly normal intelligent individuals. 9/10 times someone is said to have adhd they have a severely unhealthy diet or have/ had troubled home lives and act impulsively out of need for attention.

that being said autism is a very serious mental disability and can be very difficult to handle especially in a place like a school. People who have autism like was said before are very self involved and can be shy towards anyone they are unfamiliar with, and will not sit in a lesson that would not interest them. However they are also highly intelligent individuals and with the proper care and support can become highly successful individuals.

However most schools don’t have the budget the staff or the time to deal with an average students needs let alone any one with disabilities. This I feel makes special needs schools a very important part of the education system and one that needs improving upon.

I know several people with both physical and mental disabilities and they have been good friends of mine since I was little. Even recently one of the instructors at the gym I just joined is wheelchair ridden and he is 5 times fitter then me and recently did a wheel chair marathon.

The main issue is that people aren’t taught what these disabilities actually are and therefore end up branding people as "retards" and misfits. Schools should teach people what disabilities are as when people understand each other they are easier inclined to accept them.
 

Luke W

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first of no offence to your foster brother but add and adhd are a load of crock and are just a way for people to label people who are actively more impulsive then normal people. I personally know 2 people who have been diagnosed with this disability simply because they were trouble makers at school, and yet they are perfectly normal intelligent individuals. 9/10 times someone is said to have adhd they have a severely unhealthy diet or have/ had troubled home lives and act impulsively out of need for attention.

that being said autism is a very serious mental disability and can be very difficult to handle especially in a place like a school. People who have autism like was said before are very self involved and can be shy towards anyone they are unfamiliar with, and will not sit in a lesson that would not interest them. However they are also highly intelligent individuals and with the proper care and support can become highly successful individuals.

However most schools don’t have the budget the staff or the time to deal with an average students needs let alone any one with disabilities. This I feel makes special needs schools a very important part of the education system and one that needs improving upon.

I know several people with both physical and mental disabilities and they have been good friends of mine since I was little. Even recently one of the instructors at the gym I just joined is wheelchair ridden and he is 5 times fitter then me and recently did a wheel chair marathon.

The main issue is that people aren’t taught what these disabilities actually are and therefore end up branding people as "retards" and misfits. Schools should teach people what disabilities are as when people understand each other they are easier inclined to accept them.
None taken mate. I don't know a lot about either of the conditions, my point was just that for his own benefit, the benefit of his teachers and classmates, he is in the best school for him.

In regard to his diet, then yes, it is unhealthy, as he eats practically northing and is underweight, but apparently this is a side effect of the medication he has (which after seeing what he was like on his 'trial period' without it after having it every day for a couple of years, he definitely needs). I don't know whether you mean diet in this way or whether you're talking more about fizzy drinks/sweets/colours etc, which he has very few of because of the reaction he has to them.

In regard to his home life, I don't know what sort of effect it has had on him, but he has lived with my parents now for 10 years, since he was 2, and off the top of my head, it was his seventh/eighth move between various carers/homes and his mum. I doubt that it could have any more than a negative affect on him now though. His home life now however, I would describe as normal, or as close at it can be for him.

I think however, he may be one of the one out of ten that is appropritately diagnosed. I know I definitely wouldn't use the same description as you of a "perfectly normal intelligent individual" to describe him anyway.

In the most part, I think you're pretty much right.
 

Cook$

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first of no offence to your foster brother but add and adhd are a load of crock and are just a way for people to label people who are actively more impulsive then normal people. I personally know 2 people who have been diagnosed with this disability simply because they were trouble makers at school, and yet they are perfectly normal intelligent individuals. 9/10 times someone is said to have adhd they have a severely unhealthy diet or have/ had troubled home lives and act impulsively out of need for attention.
ADHD is 100% real. It may me misdiagnosed, as in the cases you suggest, but as a disorder it is 100% genuine.
 

Missy-Q

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Soo Sad You were so bately dropped on your head when you were a child no wonder everyone i talk to says stay of this forums As there some people Who are kind and there to help and then alot of dicks like you

No point replying because I Wont be on this **** again
Man, this guy is the biggest tool I think I've ever seen online.




Lets get him back on here!
 

Buddha 3

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that being said autism is a very serious mental disability and can be very difficult to handle especially in a place like a school. People who have autism like was said before are very self involved and can be shy towards anyone they are unfamiliar with, and will not sit in a lesson that would not interest them. However they are also highly intelligent individuals and with the proper care and support can become highly successful individuals.
As Cook$ already mentioned, ADHD is real, but what you say about autistic people being smart is pure nonsense.
They can be smart, they can be stupid, they can be anything in between.

As a somewhat funny (if you have bad taste like me) story, my ex wife used to be a nurse and while she was still in training, she had to do an internship in an institution for the mentally handicapped.
She worked in a department that specialised in people that were VERY autistic, but suffered from severe epilepsy as well.

One evening I came to pick her up from work, so I walk in and see a few people walking around with what looked like bicycle helmets. When they noticed I had walked in, the autism for a few of them kicked in, as they saw a "scary looking stranger". So they get stressed. The stress triggered their epilepsy. So two hit the floor, twitching and frothing. Because two are on the floor, three others get stressed two, and also get a seizure. So within 30 seconds of me walking in, 5 people were on the floor... I decided to wait outside.

At least I knew what the helmets were for now.
 

Cook$

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As Cook$ already mentioned, ADHD is real, but what you say about autistic people being smart is pure nonsense.
They can be smart, they can be stupid, they can be anything in between.
People tend to gauge how smart autistic people are by what they can't/don't do and comparing it to what they do do (I'm guilty myself). We have a lad in school who is extremely autistic, completely lacking in speech, etc.. but he is very good on a computer, and good at spelling. This doesn't make him any cleverer, he is just as good at spelling as a non-autistic kid his age would be, but when people take into account his disability this gets amplified into some genius-like quality. We also have a kid who is good on a piano because that's what he enjoys doing and has done all his life. He couldn't play the piano brilliantly instantly, but when he hasn't had the distraction of being made to do things he hasn't wanted to do he learned. This doesn't make him clever, it just means that he wants to play the piano and has done for years.

Contrary to popular belief, autistic people don't all have a superpower, they can't all count cards or play entire symphonies after hearing them only once. These people are called savants and are few and far between.

As Buddha said, autistic people can be anything from smart to dumb just like non-autistic people.

I'm not having a dig at anyone here, I'm just trying to make a point that some people may have missed/hadn't realised.
 

Missy-Q

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I have just aquired a brother-in-law with Aspergers Syndrome. he's just a regular kid, but doesn't make friends easily. He's 15, and makes friends through his online gaming just fine, but put him in a social situation and he has nothing to contribute.
I would rather see him treated completely normally, as his condition is clearly very mild (he is mixed with 'normal' kids in his white christian school class).

His mother on the other hand, wraps him in cotton wool, and thinks he needs to be treated differently, she won't let him do the stupid stuff that 15 yr-old kids do, and as a result, the other kids call him 'gayboy'. He is so closeted at home he had to go hopme and ask what 'gay' meant. His TV is vetted, and he is allowed to listen to Christian Rock Music.

I'm not sure where I'm going with this anymore...
 

NSKlad

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I'm not sure where I'm going with this anymore...
His mother is a Fundamentalist muppet? ;)

Anyway, sounds like she needs to back off and let the guy live a little. No wonder his social skills are so lacking if she keeps him under lock and key like that.

(Sorry if this post comes off as a personal attack on her, but Christians make me itch... I'll admit I'm quite biased against them)
 

Missy-Q

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His mother is a Fundamentalist muppet? ;)

(Sorry if this post comes off as a personal attack on her, but Christians make me itch... I'll admit I'm quite biased against them)
Not only a fundamentalist Christian, but a fundamentalist Christian with a fear of all things Muslim.
So, a hypocritical Fundamentalist.

Scary really.