Tom Portox, you know me as one of the UK Refs who does the PSP World Cup, and know how I run a field. You are more than welcome to come and ref on my field and see what happens if any damn player threatens you with violence when I am Field Ultimate, I promise you this I know enough people in this industry to see them get a lengthy ban, and I am NOT scared of banning people, trust me I have done it before and I have got the balls to do it again and again,if the need be. Mars Bar, if he did say that, was indeed wrong to say that you have to grin and bear it. Would you grin and bear it if average Joe on the street came up to you and told you they were gonna twat you? would you f*ck, you'd put one on them. But as a ref you have to be better than that and remain cool and calm under pressure. That's what professionalism is all about.