Heads Up People !!!!

[Buddha 3]

I'm sorry but I'm a firm believer that violence is never the answer. There are far better ways to teach someone a lesson than beat them. I believe Breakwell has found this out first hand. A kicking will hurt for a week. Being universally hated within his chosen sport will hurt for a lifetime.

I see where you're coming from, don't agree with it fully, but to an extent you have a point.
The "putting in check" I described earlier, as was done by the big brothers in our environment, did not equal beatdowns. They were short, sharp shocks that focused the mind wonderfully. If we were beaten to a bloody pulp, I'm sure we would have come out differently.

The problem with a guy like Breakwell seems to be that he will always assume the victim's role. There have never been any real ramifications that came from his actions (no big brother giving him a slap, hell, even his father seems to think it's okay whatever he's doing), so now that suddenly things are falling apart around him, surely that can't be his fault... Well, at least not in his mind. Even if he were beaten with a lead pipe and set on fire, he still wouldn't get the message, in fact, it would make him the victim even more. So the soft touch or tough love, either way, this guy won't learn. The only way he will learn is if the message comes from his peers. Which, despite the fact that he plays paintball, we ain't. Like Roquey said, he doesn't care about paintball, he probably thinks it's just something to do that makes him seem a tough guy. "I shoot bullitz at peoplez yo!"

 

[Big_jim]

Wise words indeed Buddha. However I think it may hurt a bit more than most people think. He likes to play the big man. The semi pro ect. What other sport in this world has the top teams as accessible as paintball? Before all this came out he could claim to play for warped and some of the younger/naive players would believe it (despite blatant fabrication) and as such massage his wrongly inflated ego. From now on I feel whatever he turns his hand to he will find himself not only a small fish in an ocean, but one of the smallest fish. It will be torture for someone of his dellusions.

 

[Robbo]

I think the internet has allowed many a wannabee tough guy to indulge themselves at the expense of others .. they can most certainly talk the talk and be seen to do so but the real problem is ..... a lack of consequence for them which is made even more unlikely because of the law and political correctness.

This 'internet distancing' has enabled breakwell to threaten me and indulge himself at my expense but he knows deep down that if it comes on top for him and we meet face to face, his keyboard warrior status will be somewhat compromised in favour of soiling his panties ... he knows this to be true but he also knows he won't have to face up to this unless I do make it my business to go meet him ... that remains to be seen ... but as Buddha implies, these type individuals go from hero to zero in a heartbeat, and from acting out the ultimate hard man he morphs into the ultimate victim generally involving the police as protection ... the irony of this move seems completely lost as he buckles up with a yellow bra after taking off the Ronnie Kray internet overcoat .......
I hope breakwell does cross someone who will seek a private audience with him because then, even though he might not learn from it, we all can take a deep satisfaction in knowing breakwell was in a situation he couldn't control and subsequently felt frightened and felt pain ..... two sentiments that have this unerring knack of making you feel awfully alone and helpless .....

 

[ses_paintball]

well ses is in basildon, now ive seen some shi*tholes in my time....

And because of this i'm a scrounging thug. I see.

As to seeing ethnic kids disrespecting their elders yes i've seen it many times. But the whole point of it doesn't appear to happen abroad is a good one.

 

[Jacko]

This is exactly the way I see it. I was raised to give bullies a good kicking. It may not be how people are raised nowadays, but I prefer it.

Same here, at the end of the day you cant go through life ****ing on people and expect to get away with it,,"what goes around comes around"

 

[Roquey]

And because of this i'm a scrounging thug. I see.

As to seeing ethnic kids disrespecting their elders yes i've seen it many times. But the whole point of it doesn't appear to happen abroad is a good one.

I was not implying that ses, i grew up in southend so i know the area, just having a laugh

 

[Missy-Q]

ses so in leafy kent if you do something wrong you get a kicking
believe me in some place up here you go in the wrong pub or your not a local
if you read my post correctly i said inner cities aswell which are mainly down south as that is were most of the cities are
but yes in cities up north we have the same problem,that is why i said mining towns and rural areas

I see, so in the south/inner cities we get a lack of basic values, and in the North you take your life into your own hands simply by walking into a pub you havn't been in before.
Choices choices, makes me wonder why everyone doesn't live in the midlands with the real men....

 

[Robbo]

Violence is everywhere .. the more people you have living in one particular area, the more violence you will get.

You can also factor in things like poverty and social depravation as being signiifcant factors in increased levels of violence ... It's the nature of [some] males to be violent and with alcohol and sniff boosting people's aggression, it's hardly surprising we are see more and more of it ....

 

[ses_paintball]

I see Besides. I just keep out of the **** parts.... yes some parts are safe.....(debatably)

But yes it's a place I don't plan to stay. Just the other day I was dragged into a fight at college because some tits thought it was acceptable to start randomly on some poor kid.

 

[Ali]

I see Besides. I just keep out of the **** parts.... yes some parts are safe.....(debatably)

But yes it's a place I don't plan to stay. Just the other day I was dragged into a fight at college because some tits thought it was acceptable to start randomly on some poor kid.

i thought huddersfield was a safe place, till i found out the hard way