Hummmm....
Well. I never really paid attention at school. Luckily I have a natural ability of taking in things first time I hear them, and somehow I manage to remember it all when the time comes. I never studied at school, and managed to come away with B+C's.
Like you, my social life was not in a good ratio with my studying.... And it stills an't!
TBH, I don't give a crap about decent grades. I managed to get a decent job after finishing my Advanced GNVQ at college, and they send me on my HND in computing for free.
It’s all about experience not grades. You play your life the way u wanna play it, and if your parents don't like it, **** em.
I was lucky, my parents always encouraged me to do what I wanted to do, and they never held me back. Yeah, they gave me advice, but when I made a bad choice, they didn't oppress me for it.
You may interpretative their lack of "punishment" to be lack of caring, but I did confront them about this and we had a long talk about it.
People make their own mistakes, and if you an't allowed to, how the hell are you ever going to learn anything about life?
School has got noting to do with paintball. You do your best and that’s it. If your parents don't like the way your living your life that an't your problem.
Have a think about the longer term here.
No (or few) qualifications = dead end job = low salary = can only afford to play occasionally (even if you do stint on luxuries like food).
Very good qualifications = high end job = very good salary = play as often as you want & afford loads of shiny toys to play with.
I know which one I would do if I was young again!
Not necessarily. My grades sure an't outstanding, and I only passed my GNVQ. Your attitude to life means much more, also confidence in yourself goes a long way to getting a decent job. I'm 20 and earning over £18k a year. I don't consider this to be a bad wage for my age. Of cuz I’d like more, but hey dont we all.
Maybe it’s just my way of looking at life. My parents where very poor, and so was I growing up. Money doesn't bother me. Enjoying myself does! I don't get stressed out, and very little annoys me. Different strokes different folks.
To quote trainspotting* : Choose Life.
-Midge
*just cuz i quoted it doesn't mean i want you to all start on the smack, m`okay?