I thought the mods were supposed to judge... The only one making things public is hgherbz's supposed mom.
Need Help Please Guys
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Robbo?!
I have had reason to voice my conern over a matter on this website regarding my son, I posted a very calm response and voiced my opinion in an eloquent fashion. I then had an email from Pete who said I could ring him as long as I behaved myself???? I rang him up and spoke to him politely at which point he told me to shut up and listen WTF? I said I hadnt finished and would he not just listen to my complaint so he told to shut the f**k up and asked if I was going to behave myself?? Im a grown up! right, Im not expecting any kind of agreement on here as he obvioulsy rules the roost but needed to vent as I cannot believe that the man is so aggressive, ignorant and to be quite honest a clown that believes his own hype. 1 steroid too many me thinks. Its a shame that he is ambassador for the sport. Any responses putting me in my place should be fairly swift as I presume a ban is winging my way. I guess some of you may have read my posts on here, no aggression was used on my behalf, no bad language etc and this is the email I received?
"Your son is a pest, and an ignorant one at that, if you wish to call me, then I have no problem in that and you can do so on 07515 890385.
My name is Pete and I will warn you now, do NOT be rude to me in anyway"
Was that last line a line from a movie?
I have had reason to voice my conern over a matter on this website regarding my son, I posted a very calm response and voiced my opinion in an eloquent fashion. I then had an email from Pete who said I could ring him as long as I behaved myself???? I rang him up and spoke to him politely at which point he told me to shut up and listen WTF? I said I hadnt finished and would he not just listen to my complaint so he told to shut the f**k up and asked if I was going to behave myself?? Im a grown up! right, Im not expecting any kind of agreement on here as he obvioulsy rules the roost but needed to vent as I cannot believe that the man is so aggressive, ignorant and to be quite honest a clown that believes his own hype. 1 steroid too many me thinks. Its a shame that he is ambassador for the sport. Any responses putting me in my place should be fairly swift as I presume a ban is winging my way. I guess some of you may have read my posts on here, no aggression was used on my behalf, no bad language etc and this is the email I received?
"Your son is a pest, and an ignorant one at that, if you wish to call me, then I have no problem in that and you can do so on 07515 890385.
My name is Pete and I will warn you now, do NOT be rude to me in anyway"
Was that last line a line from a movie?
I asked you a simple question. You failed to respond.
And regarding your son, the simple fact that ALL THE MODERATORS as well as ALL THE ADMINS on this website share Pete's opinion on him should tell you something. Just a wake up call here, I know he's your kid (Pete confirmed you being his mother) and you love him (which I applaud), but the sun does not shine out of his ass. His behavior on this site has been abysmal and in real life would have probably resulted in him coming home with a black eye. Luckily for him this is just the internet.
Some people consider me the voice of reason on this forum, so I ask you again: What do you want from us? What is your motivation for posting here? What are you trying to achieve?
If you fail to respond to this very simple question again, I advice you to not go away mad, but just to go away.
And regarding your son, the simple fact that ALL THE MODERATORS as well as ALL THE ADMINS on this website share Pete's opinion on him should tell you something. Just a wake up call here, I know he's your kid (Pete confirmed you being his mother) and you love him (which I applaud), but the sun does not shine out of his ass. His behavior on this site has been abysmal and in real life would have probably resulted in him coming home with a black eye. Luckily for him this is just the internet.
Some people consider me the voice of reason on this forum, so I ask you again: What do you want from us? What is your motivation for posting here? What are you trying to achieve?
If you fail to respond to this very simple question again, I advice you to not go away mad, but just to go away.
I dont want anything from you?? but why should someone have such support from people when they go around talking to people like that? My posts havent been aggressive and I came on here because robbo was aggressive to my son but mainly because he thinks its fine to call me scum when he hasnt who a clue who I am? would you let someone talk to your wife / girlfriend / sister / mum like that? People are too easy to put others on pedastals because they have a certain reputation and I cant stand to see in done in real life or on an internet forum. Im not saying my son is a saint, Im a mother not a fantasist, but I expect any crap behaviour to be dealt with in mature way not by adults coming down to a teenagers level! You think its ok for Robbo to say my son was dragged up and his family are scum?? How is talking like that setting an example? And t tbeing shouted down the phone to shut the f**k up? I'd rang to bring closure to this and didnt even raise my voice!
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Gassy
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So why did your son send me an abusive pm then ?
I have only pointed out that his post was appalling (which it is) yet i received an abusive pm from him.
If my 8 or 10 year old came home from school with the grammar skills of your 16 year old son has I would be knocking the schools door down demanding to know what they were teaching them.
I have only pointed out that his post was appalling (which it is) yet i received an abusive pm from him.
If my 8 or 10 year old came home from school with the grammar skills of your 16 year old son has I would be knocking the schools door down demanding to know what they were teaching them.
He showed me what he sent and I pulled him on it, he was writing in slang he doesnt get taught that in school! and why is no one commenting on how I was spoke / shouted to?? everyone is slating a teenager but its fine for an adult to be abusive online and on the phone as long as his grammer is correct? My daughter could hear the bloke shouting at me sitting next to me and just sat there with her mouth open! it was unreal and slightly odd! No one care to comment on how he conducts himself? and talking about unanswered questions the one I keep asking is is it fine to call my family scum?? The guy is a bully and I've always spoke out agaisnt bullys, good job Im not easily intimidated otherwise the phone call could have freaked me out
I told you to 'shut the fuhk up' because your mouth wouldn't stop talking cr@p - I had had enough of you, your ignorant son and I'm afraid if you don't like it, I am sure your 'education' will equip you to make an expedient decision here and never darken my doors again.
Your son needs to learn some manners and some basic education and if you haven't bothered to teach him any of these then I don't see why we should have to suffer him, or indeed you.
This is the real world, not some construct your son interacts with as he deems fit, if he's rude to someone [which indeed he was] then sometimes in the real world, there are consequences and by that I mean, not all consequences are 'virtual'.
Now, go away, paintball will do well enough without the fruit of your loins for the time-being, and in that time, let's hope he learns some real world manners.
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Gassy
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Originally Posted by hgherbz
for all of u saying i cudent get a nice mask for that price ur wrong yet agian i get the best deal. got my self a bear new only used once empre e vents.
That post is not slang,it is not even in the english language.
Nothing more would have been said if your son had not sent abusive pm's to myself and the site owner,non of this would have happened but your sons e-persona took over and he thought he could get away with it.
The next step back from the brink could have been an apology from your son,I am a very easy going guy but I don't take kindly to been called names by little boys who may bump into me at an event one day.
Explain to your son UK paintball is a very small community and most people play the same events and the chances of bumping into someone he has abused on a forum are quite high.Some may not be as forgiving as myself when they see his name on a shirt at another event.
for all of u saying i cudent get a nice mask for that price ur wrong yet agian i get the best deal. got my self a bear new only used once empre e vents.
That post is not slang,it is not even in the english language.
Nothing more would have been said if your son had not sent abusive pm's to myself and the site owner,non of this would have happened but your sons e-persona took over and he thought he could get away with it.
The next step back from the brink could have been an apology from your son,I am a very easy going guy but I don't take kindly to been called names by little boys who may bump into me at an event one day.
Explain to your son UK paintball is a very small community and most people play the same events and the chances of bumping into someone he has abused on a forum are quite high.Some may not be as forgiving as myself when they see his name on a shirt at another event.
You voice a complaint on this site. Clearly you want something from those who run and/or moderate it.
But alas, your name is now pink. It seems you have been banned.
If your lovely son had told you the full facts, you would not have made a fool of yourself. For those just viewing this thread without knowing what the hell is going on, we won't make everything public, so if you think all this was heavy handed, feel free to do so. But those that know what happened will underwrite the following message: Red, your son, hgherbz, is a tremendous dick.
Shakespeare and his mum are now both banned; I'm not so sure I have banned them for 'crimes committed' but more for the fact I don't like either of them and I will invoke my last trump card by stating it's my house and these people are not welcome.
I have got no problem with people who have spelling difficulties and I will help them as much as i can, but I don't lazy ass ingrates who when told to organise their posts a little more coherently go into 'dick' mode and become the world's next tough guy and insult everybody; and this is exactly what this individual did.
After pretending to be the gangsta type, he then, quite ironically, runs for his mommy who as a consequence, leaps to the defence of the ignoramus only to be told to 'shut the fhuk up'.
Within about ten seconds of hearing her prattle on, I had marked her card and thus far, she has strayed little from this evaluation.
She is another person whom the real world has yet to visit .... 'like mother like son' I suppose
I have got no problem with people who have spelling difficulties and I will help them as much as i can, but I don't lazy ass ingrates who when told to organise their posts a little more coherently go into 'dick' mode and become the world's next tough guy and insult everybody; and this is exactly what this individual did.
After pretending to be the gangsta type, he then, quite ironically, runs for his mommy who as a consequence, leaps to the defence of the ignoramus only to be told to 'shut the fhuk up'.
Within about ten seconds of hearing her prattle on, I had marked her card and thus far, she has strayed little from this evaluation.
She is another person whom the real world has yet to visit .... 'like mother like son' I suppose