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Modern Paranoia

JWarren

www.khayos.co.uk
Mar 11, 2009
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Wow that's disgraceful. Posted a whole thread and it dissapeared :(

Well I'll start again. Basically it all starts like this. I'm attending a walk-on on May 30-31st. I'm 17 and I would consider myself mature and pretty responsible. I will be camping overnight in a tent by myself (dedication :D) and hopefully I'll have a good weekend.

Well this is the paranoia bit. I won't have my car till later this year so I posted on the UKScenario forums asking if anyone could kindly give me a lift there and back. I said I would gladly chip in some petrol money and bring whoever takes me some beer or paint, basically whatever they fancied for the weekend. The owner of the site that the walk-on is based at replied saying he knew a few people from around my area that would be able to give me a lift. All went well he got in touch and gave me a number of a guy from his team not far from me. I rang the guy and he kindly agreed to give me a lift there and back and meet me not far from my house.

I'm a trusting person and to me the paintball community is a tight knit, great community that enjoy the same amazing sport as me. Everyone I have met so far has been kind and helpful including yourselves. There has obviously been a few chavs knocking around on punter days that have made complete dxck heads of themselves but I wouldn't even relate them to the paintball company. Well this is where the dilemma starts.

My parents think it's "cringeworthy" that I'm going to a walk-on with a stranger. I've had terrible "dad jokes" which are generally the worst kind, of how I should leave a will etc. [insert bad jokes here] My mam is being the stereotypical character asking for contact numbers and making sure I get ready the night before. Both aren't too keen on the idea and at first completely refused to me going. It took me a while to persuade them. Gah. I myself think it's nice to see some trust and kindness in this world for a change. I won't think twice before stepping in the car with this guy and I'm very grateful for his kindness.

It makes me wonder if the media causes uncessary paranoia. Excuse my bluntness but you hear stories like the "McCan's" and everyone seems to think the world if full of paedophiles and rapists. People go missing and people get kidnapped but they always have done just the media haven't been there to publicize it and hype it up. I just wondered what other peoples opinions are on this as my parents seem so edgey about it. Would you let someone my age do it if they were your kid etc? Are people too paranoid? Would love to see a discussion :)
 

NSKlad

Pistolas y Corazones
Dec 9, 2006
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As much as that sucks mate, your parents have a fair point. :)

Contact numbers is pretty straightforward and not a big problem, and getting ready the night before helps a little, although it's not 100% necessary.

I don't have that problem to be honest, my parents are always quite loose with me.
 

Buddha 3

Hamfist McPunchalot
Any normal parent is protective towards his/her offspring. Some more so than others. I can understand why it would make them nervous when you go out on the road with complete strangers. Leaving a phone number makes sense.

PS If you want to use the McCans as an example, your parents should mostly worry about themselves. It's fairly obvious those people are involved... :D
 

Rat

eating brick!
Sep 18, 2005
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Put your folk mind at ease.

Mobile numbers and numbers to the site your going to, and a location should they need to get hold of you. (For whatever purpose!)

Let one of your parents speak to the chap giving you a lift aswell. (I have had to speak to worried parents in the past, it puts their minds at ease and helpsthem form their own judgements)

If he is as local as he sounds, why not invite him over for a brew? Again this is an Icebreaker for your parents and yourself to get comfortable and gain trust of the driver.
 

Pmr Man

otherwise known as Bing!
Apr 24, 2008
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Tell your parents not to fret as he has talked about providing some Rohypnol so you dont remember the "journey" :)
if you've seen the IT croud: "20 gold peices and i'm w@*kered on rohypnol"

i had a similar problem when going to the nspl with a friend that my parents dont know much; best thing to do is "give constant communication" wheras you text them every now and again. well that worked for me- but i'm only 15