You bring some very good points up there Liz.Originally posted by Liz
Buddha3 - you are a big, strong tough guy but I am a comparatively weak & feeble woman. I have been verbally abused by people who felt that comments I'd made on the boards were directed at them, and I can tell you now that a bunch of big fellas leaning towards me all shouting is very, very intimidating indeed & rather scary.
Now I don't even hide behind a regular net name, as far as I know I'm the only regular UK tourney player named Liz (& certainly the only Chick with that name) & have no problems with being associated with what I post hence I log in under my real name. BUT - I can completely understand people who want a little anonymity sometimes.
Take the situation of a pro player who wants to put his/her views across, but they are in opposition to their team's sponsor's views. The player really wants to make a good point but if they do, either they are kicked off the team or the whole team may lose sponsorship. I'm sure there are other situations where anonymity would be wanted for valid reasons.
Equally, I completely agree that we need to do something about people who create new identities just so they can insult someone else safely, or cause controversy for the sake of it. So I think the mods would have to take every situation on it's own merits, and also remember that sometimes people really, honestly do register as members specifically because they want to join in on a particularly "interesting" discussion.
BTW - anyone know how to get rid of a second identity here? I have another ID that wouldn't work so I re-registered myself as a new member, but can't get rid of the old one!
Veiws respected mate, didn't think you'd taken that much flak reallyOriginally posted by Buddha 3
Like I said earlier, if people feel the need to do things from the cover of another id, then fine. But don't expect me to have a lot of respect for it. (how did I suddenly become the bad guy? I haven't attacked anyone, it's just that I have strong principles on this matter)
Liz, I may be a big man, that has the potential to scare off would be assailants, but the events that have given me this opinion were not revolving around me, but rather around someone I care very much for.
Please guys, I have no intention to go on some moral crusade on this issue. I just stated my opinion, that's all. It's not like I explode into a fiery ball of wrath when I see these things happen, it's more like I sit in fromt of my computer softly muttering 'chicken****'.
Personally, if I feel something needs to be said, but I fear the consequenses, I will talk to people around me first, people I feel I can trust. If that doesn't help me feel better, I'd go public with it, but always under my own name. If I feel the flashback from going public will be too much for me to handle, I'll just have to live with not saying it then. But that's just me.
So please give me some slack for just trying to be a straight up guy, nothing more, nothing less.
I also have very little respect for bullies by the way, so if something like that happens again, and there is some way I can help, give me a shout. I know it's not likely, but the offer is there none the less.Originally posted by Liz
Give us some slack - we're not all strong & brave like you, some of us are a bit wimpy & scared![]()