I think Kat's point was that whether it was meant to be offensive (which I agree it probably wasn't), it still was. If someone made an "offhand" racist joke, meant entirely innocently, I don't think we'd have the same "but it's just some crazy funtime" attitude. Anyway, you get my point: what's the difference between gender and race that makes it okay to be flippant about women? I'm not on a crusade, but this has taken my interest as a debate. I personally enjoy a good lapdance, but I charge more than 20 quid and sometimes I might cry. It's the only way I can afford to play.
Edit: I type way too slow