You don’t seem to understand what I’m saying. I didn’t ask for help i asked why can’t threads be closed once the transaction is complete by people saying ''sent'' ''received''
Quoting your words ''The onus is on YOU to do your homework on the seller and satisfy yourself before sending money''.
My first point i made would make it easier to do that!
And who is getting arsey ? Don’t know why you mentioned that for.
My post was a suggestion and you took it the wrong way.
So why open a thread? Ok you've made a suggestion and I gave you the answer. It was moved to the graveyard as per the title change requested.
What you're suggesting is that when someone changes a title or requests a thread be moved to graveyard, that we mods run around checking everyone is satisfied first? I fully understand what you're saying, I don't think you understand how much work that involves when you consider the majority of posts on this forum are in the for sale section with God knows how many threads per day/week/month. And I'll repeat, the onus is on YOU to do your homework, not on us to make sure deals conclude satisfactorily. If you take the risk and it goes wrong, it's your problem, not ours.
Read your original post, the title is
"why cant I reply to post"
That's not a suggestion.
"Why was it grave yarded before i received my item i think it should be grave yarded once items have been received"
That's also not a suggestion, that's an opinion.
Again, because you seem to be unable to grasp this, how the hell are we supposed to know whether you've got your item or not?
The seller followed the rules of posting, provided you with proof of posting. if you wanted super fast postage tracked, insured and recorded did you specify this in your payment? did you pay extra to cover it? Was it made clear to either party that this is what was expected? Seller said price + postage suggesting to me that you were to pay for the postage you expected.
And to reply from what you said in the other post about ''check my attitude'' and ''wind my neck in'' its not my attitude that needs checking. (I removed it from the other post thought it would be better here and not on the for sale section im glad you could see what i edited out)
You were told to wind your neck in because you posted the same thing across multiple topics in multiple sections, there is no need. Once is enough. In fact you should be contacting the seller, as said before it's all at your own risk.