agree and disagree at the same time,
the first ref didn't see the hit BUT depending on how strict to the rules the refs had been told to be if the ref had seen the hit it would have been a 141 any if as you say the player stayed posted, the strict letter of the millennium rules state that the player may not make an aggressive move, posting your marker in a position to give you a shot at the opposition could be seen as this and therefore perceived as playing on, if you intend to call a ref to check you for paint then you should drop your gun.....also some refs would give a 141 for hopper hits as this is somewhere a player can easily check himself without needing a ref to call him out. Last season we were told that if a player needs to be told he is hit then give a 141.
anyone that says they don't feel or cant hear or see their own hopper getting shot is talking rubbish, as a ref i usually hear a lot more hopper shots than i see actually happen, you can hear the sound a mile away and it doesn't take long then to see who got hit.
at the same time this particular instance it sounds like the ref went to pull the player simply because it was his brother, the fact he gave a 141 us irrelevant as that should have been the call given by the first ref anyway.