Well, thus far I at least have a night out with her at one of our favorite bars for the next to last part of it, hopefully to get her all up for the grand finale. I've still got dinner plans in the works right now--likely it'll be cajun blackened tuna steaks with hollandaise and crabmeat, avocados stuffed with shrimp and hearts of palm topped with poppy seed dressing, and cherry crepes for desert.
As for what to actually get for her, well, maybe some Grand Marnier or a bottle of Laphroaig, Bunnahabbein (or however the f*&# you spell it, it's a good Islay) or some odd Orkney.