I have marshalled all of once in my 8 years or so playing, it was at a 2k5 event at Elsham Bully ran.
In that one day I had someone throw there toys out the pram because he chronoed at 340fps and I told him he couldn't go on the field and penaltied his team for it. Strangely the team took it well, but he took the huff and refused to play for the rest of the day.
I then had a player from a 'Pro' team argue about a hit I had pulled him for. He was hit on the chest off the break, I pulled him, after the game he then was shouting and screming and asking me to point out where he had been hit, which he had obviously removed while in the deadbox.
I then also had another div one player threaten to kill me and kick off with the team they were playing for overshooting him (was something like 5 on 1). The fact the team bonus balled him because the team he played for notoriously played on, but hey ho. This was also witnessed by the Ultimate of the series at the time who did absolutely nowt about it. In closing the refs we have now need more respect or what hope do you have of others actually wanting to do it, if the ones we have now are at there wits end?
After this (and this was only once) I vowed I would never marshall an event again. I also after this had a greater respect for the marshalls who do this every month (the ones that don't even PLAY anymore I might add). They don't do it for the money, because what they get barely (if it even does) cover there expenses.
Over the last 8 years I've realised the higher the level of paintball players seem to be at the worse the cheating/argueing/bonus balling/abuse etc seems to get (this is not a blanket statement though! there are some very good and fair teams out there as well in the upper ranks). If you have young players aspiring to be like our top players what hope do you have if they see them behaving like this?!
It seems all too easy to blame a ref for people loosing games. We have all had bad calls and lost games for it, but by the same token we have had teams we are playing against have bad calls made against them and won games we probably shouldn't have! Swings and roundabouts people! Feck me even premier league refs and linesman get massive calls wrong, and look at whats involved money wise for the people involved there!
I have a few refs as friends on Facebook. Sadly a few of there status are reading that they are disallusioned at best, and given up altogether at worst. Without these people there are no tournaments, end of story!
Sadly though until punishments are dealt out that discourage these types of behaviour nothing will change. Why players feel they can behave like this I have no clue (and bolloc*ks to the 'we are paying customers' line!).
How many times after arguing with refs do games get re played? Never in my experience. So the point of arguing and abusining refs is what exactly?
Most players are friendly and show some manners towards marshalls, and this is always reciprocated in my experience. Its ironic that the teams caught playing on, arguing, abuseing people, are the ones that feel hard done by!! The rest just accept the calls and get on with it.
Hope the likes Jabba, Ant, Jon, Jahlad, Sue etc to name but a few carry on reffing, because without experienced marhshalls like them I don't know where the complaints would end! And what we would do as an alternative? Self marshall like Bullys used to? No thanks, let the refs be refs and the players be players (all be in better behaved ones!).