Next season for us there will be some basic guidelines for players (and refs alike) that will be put into place and enforced to protect all parties involved. One of the main ones will be a Millennium style approach to talking on the field after you've been shot......ie you won't do it, or you will be penalised.
We've probably all been guilty of blowing off steam at some point on the field, but we need to start altering our mindset as players when it comes down to how we speak to refs. In my mind, a rugby approach is what's required going forward rather than a football one. Remove yourself from the situation, take stock, then once the point is finished approach the off field ultimate to TALK about what happened. If required, a roaming ultimate on the day will also be brought over to review the situation.
You will not be spoken back to unless you are calm and are prepared to discuss the "event" in question. Everyone makes mistakes, but making another one by balling and shouting isn't going to make anything better. As some have said, reffing is often a faceless and thankless task - something that I aim to change next season. We need to support our refs as much as we can, and work on building a community of referees just as we would our players. It's imperative to the survival and improvement of our game.
I'll be setting up some referee clinics early next year, and if you want to be a referee at CPPS, then you'll be expected to come to one of the clinics. From then you'll be registered on our database as a referee and your "experience" tracked. More than anything it's to allow us to distribute quality referees over each field next season and give us a database on which we can work from in order to improve the standard of reffing in the UK, whilst also encouraging others to look at it as an option to raise funds for playing. We'll be covering the cost of these clinics, so it will be free to any that want to attend and if you're serious about our game, you won't think twice about spending half a day at a free clinic