You know what, I maybe it is because it is afternoon and I am getting cranky since we have no afternoon tea time in the US, but the next person who suggests a relatively new player commits suicide because they don't like that player's game or post or whatever gets a permanent ban.
Also, unless you are a one in a million player, the first year you are playing tournaments, you are figuring stuff out and you are no great shakes. So all the "you suck" stuff sounds like so much kettle-pot blah blah blah.