Tip no 1 girls can smell bull**** from a mile off
so don't feed her lame lines and excuses
If you genuinly care about her and want to stay with her tell her
women like to be told these things, your sexy, gourgeous ect
But like I said no crap chessy ****
which is more imporant to you her or the paintball
It' often a case of right person bad timming look at manning. She did sound most cool.
All the non single lads on site with happy girlies / wifes I hate to say it but work on the I want to be here with ----- so they comprimise
I will own up they would all like to spend more time paintballing
and it goes with out saying more of their money on paintballing.
Most of them get let off the lead and make the most of it
paintball widows appear to come in two main groups resingned to the fact and therefore not seeing paintball as something to lessen their relationship or threaten it. These are the cool ones or the battle ground They resent the time money ect.
which brings me back to do you want to be with her.
Has she ever been paintballing? is there a female freindly site near you? if she has a go and to some degree understands then it should be less of a problem. Unless she gets totally hooked and puts angel on her Xmas pressie wish list.
This has worked for quite a few of said lads the young ladies really enjoyed them selfs and could see their men doing some thing they really love which is also dead sexy to watch.
Not so long ago glossie womans mag did a small
article on how great paintball is and they recon really get's a couple in the mood (ow I won't continue on this train of thought or to be Pc or not Pc that is the question) also it burns off loads of callories. Be carefull with that one you might open your self up to the cavernous pit of foot in mouth "so you think I'm fat " paranoia just thought I might warn you there.
the other one is bribery plain and simple before you buy your self goodies buy her a thoughtfull (Really important one) token and then she won't have a leg or soap box to stand on.
you might have some more idears but these are all tried and tested.
good luck