Pretty much exactly what i was going to write, i dont think he should EVER be back on this forum, but perhaps in time...not saying right now, but in time he can work to regain a spot in the community, i mean think of the prison system people go in, do there time then come out and they have a 2nd chance.I have been in a few scrapes in the past myself and have done many things I'd be glad to forget.. No Angel many of us.. Thing is, a lot of what was wrong in my past and many others, were heat of the moment stuff, rather than premeditated, There are mistakes and there is to-the-bone-wrong. I think I could forgive this guy if he paid his dues and the reffin thing is a great idea.. Put back in to the community.. But the whole bullying thing really got me, the facebook gun thing was utterly wrong and to boast about it just made me sick. Give it more time and see what he comes back with?
Again never back on here but perhaps at some local sites reffing etc i think could be a good thing......not sure though its a hard one to call, i just think with all the talk of actually hurting the guy if he was at an event and some of the talk thats gone on, are we not going a bit far? its a moral battle for me this one, because i would like to forgive in time, but i cant see how......although i disagree completely on hurting the bloke should he come to an event, i expect most of us are in our mid to late 20's and upwards thats not very adult.