Bloody hell that took me a while to read all that has been posted.
OK my opinions.
THE GOOD
Generally a great bunch of people who can be very helpful.
Some seriously funny posts which can and do make me laugh.
Some very infomative posts
THE BAD
Thread hijacking.
THe trend of bullying a select few members no matter what they post.
Cliquey groups
Personally I dont care about the long "slumber party" post coz nobody makes me read them but I can see where others have a problem with them.
Thread jacking is a serious pain in the arse. You post up a question and a after one or two answers the post ends up going on a bout who did what last week.
If someones posting annoys you then use the ignore button. I have a few on my list and it makes reading threads so much nicer
I dont think there is any need to hound, bully or intimidate ANYONE off these boards.