You and Jose having a tiff in a teacup isn't a "situation", to my way of thinking, but let me say this:
Intheno: you are only barely funny in this. Your refusal to use little smilley faces is part of the problem; people don't know when to take you seriously. I understand that the range of emotions expressed by smilies is a bit limited to a complex poet like yourself, but tagging your "just playin" posts with the word "fag" or some other kind of homosexual epithet doesn't clue everyone in.
Jose: Epictetus says that it is only an insult because we feel insulted. "you look silly" and "no, you still look silly" and all that is not the highest form of verbal fencing. The most grace here would have been to laugh it off. Or ask for Phil Domingez's phone number. Or whatever.
OK, I am done giving cool guy lessons. Both of you two fight like girls doing the windmill.
