Is it so wrong to just...
love ones self? I believe this isnt done enough.
But mutual "loving and appreciation" between 2 people is never a bad thing and can be quite fun. This comes highly recommended.
Though it seems many people are practicing "mass multilayer Lovage", or mml for short. This is my preferred choice, as if your of a weak constitution, you can share the pain while gaining appreciation from your fellow forum members in large groups, many at a time.
Here's to mml between all forum members, and let us sleep easy in the knowledge and understanding that we can all come together within this community.