hey there welcome to the fab world of paintball buddy, i think most if not all people will agree that your mask is the most important piece of kit for a new starter, then find yourself a decent little shooter and go have fun. you will soon pick up the jargon and loads of advice from other players at your local field if you play regular enough. i bought an old etek3 and slowly added bits to it, freak barrel kit, kush bolt. etha or etek is a great first gun by the way, eclipse are easy to maintain and run for ever (from my experience) try a big event even like North vs South, went last year and it was f***ing epic.