When I was a kid and moved from the Elephant and Castle in London to the Kent/London borders, I was ridiculed by the other kids at school for the way I spoke.
I realised I was different from them because every time they opened their mouths they sounded different to me, and just as importantly, to anybody I had really ever heard talk before.
Their favourite taunt was to shout 'patta rattasson' every time they saw me which allegedly equated to what they thought I was saying when stating my name.
It was a miserable few weeks as I recall but kids are resilient and I got over it and learned to deal with it; when I look back, it was all part of life, nothing more.
Some time later but still at the same school, we had a kid in our year who had the unfortunate circumstance of being most obviously poor.
He was unkempt, scruffy and his clothes were so terribly threadbare.
His nickname was Steptoe after a rag and bone man on a TV series back then, a modern-day scrap merchant I suppose is the best approximation I can think of today.
I used to feel really sorry for this kid because he was a victim in many ways not least because he wasn't the sort of boy who could fight and so had to endure the taunts until others had grown tired of handing it out, which in the case of some of the idiots we had at that school, proved to be seemingly endless.
The point in mentioning these two examples of taunting?
It’s coming I promise...
I was lucky enough to pass my 11 plus and I then went to a school which had an all white pupil attendance.
I don’t mean I was lucky in the fact the school was all white, I meant lucky to pass the 11 plus exam.
I think it was in the 4th year there when we had two Indian brothers come to our school, one was placed in my year, the other in the year below.
It didn't take long before a slogan was plastered across one of the school walls, 'Keep our school white' .... this provoked the headmaster to mention it during assembly, commenting that he ‘didn't want to see any further examples of this in the school’.
On top of the obvious indignation the two Indian brothers had to endure, some personal abuse was handed out also which I’m pretty sure must have made them feel terrible.
After a while, all the cr@p stopped and the Indian brothers settled in and were accepted.
Here is my question:-
First off, no taunting is acceptable, it all hurts, every single insult cuts to the bone.
I couldn't change the way I spoke, no more than Steptoe could put any more money in his dad’s pocket, or indeed, the Indian brothers change the colour of their skin ..... but why is race treated so differently??
If somebody is accused of being racist, it's almost as bad as paedophilia, leastwise you'd think it was from the rhetoric we all witness when it's in the news.
The politicisation of racism has gotten so bad and so out of proportion that it now discourages people from feeling able to discuss it.
It's as though the mere discussion of racism is as bad as being racist itself.
I am sure some idiots will look at this post and try to wrap it up in some sort of racist attack which of course it isn't, it's merely an observation pre-empting a question for this forum.
I also think it would be quite hard for me to be a racist being as my wife is Anglo-Indian.
And so, what is it about racism [as against any type of discrimination] that makes it such a no-go area?
I tell ya what I think it is; somehow, people have managed to over-politicise it ..... we've seen minor rumblings of similarity when it comes to fat people [fatism] or even old people [ageism] but none get close to how we treat the problem of race ...
Essentially, this type of discrimination, on any grounds, whether it be moral, social, humanitarian, whatever, is no worse than those I opened up with that happened at my school but what is different is the degree of political activism surrounding race.
Some sections of our society have managed to so highly politicise the subject of race that it is now close to be being beyond debate ... and so the question I now would ask is, 'was this the initial intention of those who begun this process?'
I somehow doubt it, mainly because even the most radical thinkers within that movement could never have guessed just how far-reaching it would have all become.
It is within human nature to discriminate, and the grounds for that discrimination are as varied and as irrational as a premenstrual woman being asked to explain her obsession with shoes and chocolate ..... [Yeah, yeah, I know what I just did J] ...
And so, very often in life, we have to frame human behaviours within the rule of law in an attempt to impose some form of control in what would otherwise lead to real societal problems; it is an integral and much-needed requirement of civilised peoples to do this but sometimes do we go too far?
And I also believe we have come so far in this particular arena, we have now nudged it out of bounds in terms of real and meaningful discussion.
What do you think?
I realised I was different from them because every time they opened their mouths they sounded different to me, and just as importantly, to anybody I had really ever heard talk before.
Their favourite taunt was to shout 'patta rattasson' every time they saw me which allegedly equated to what they thought I was saying when stating my name.
It was a miserable few weeks as I recall but kids are resilient and I got over it and learned to deal with it; when I look back, it was all part of life, nothing more.
Some time later but still at the same school, we had a kid in our year who had the unfortunate circumstance of being most obviously poor.
He was unkempt, scruffy and his clothes were so terribly threadbare.
His nickname was Steptoe after a rag and bone man on a TV series back then, a modern-day scrap merchant I suppose is the best approximation I can think of today.
I used to feel really sorry for this kid because he was a victim in many ways not least because he wasn't the sort of boy who could fight and so had to endure the taunts until others had grown tired of handing it out, which in the case of some of the idiots we had at that school, proved to be seemingly endless.
The point in mentioning these two examples of taunting?
It’s coming I promise...
I was lucky enough to pass my 11 plus and I then went to a school which had an all white pupil attendance.
I don’t mean I was lucky in the fact the school was all white, I meant lucky to pass the 11 plus exam.
I think it was in the 4th year there when we had two Indian brothers come to our school, one was placed in my year, the other in the year below.
It didn't take long before a slogan was plastered across one of the school walls, 'Keep our school white' .... this provoked the headmaster to mention it during assembly, commenting that he ‘didn't want to see any further examples of this in the school’.
On top of the obvious indignation the two Indian brothers had to endure, some personal abuse was handed out also which I’m pretty sure must have made them feel terrible.
After a while, all the cr@p stopped and the Indian brothers settled in and were accepted.
Here is my question:-
First off, no taunting is acceptable, it all hurts, every single insult cuts to the bone.
I couldn't change the way I spoke, no more than Steptoe could put any more money in his dad’s pocket, or indeed, the Indian brothers change the colour of their skin ..... but why is race treated so differently??
If somebody is accused of being racist, it's almost as bad as paedophilia, leastwise you'd think it was from the rhetoric we all witness when it's in the news.
The politicisation of racism has gotten so bad and so out of proportion that it now discourages people from feeling able to discuss it.
It's as though the mere discussion of racism is as bad as being racist itself.
I am sure some idiots will look at this post and try to wrap it up in some sort of racist attack which of course it isn't, it's merely an observation pre-empting a question for this forum.
I also think it would be quite hard for me to be a racist being as my wife is Anglo-Indian.
And so, what is it about racism [as against any type of discrimination] that makes it such a no-go area?
I tell ya what I think it is; somehow, people have managed to over-politicise it ..... we've seen minor rumblings of similarity when it comes to fat people [fatism] or even old people [ageism] but none get close to how we treat the problem of race ...
Essentially, this type of discrimination, on any grounds, whether it be moral, social, humanitarian, whatever, is no worse than those I opened up with that happened at my school but what is different is the degree of political activism surrounding race.
Some sections of our society have managed to so highly politicise the subject of race that it is now close to be being beyond debate ... and so the question I now would ask is, 'was this the initial intention of those who begun this process?'
I somehow doubt it, mainly because even the most radical thinkers within that movement could never have guessed just how far-reaching it would have all become.
It is within human nature to discriminate, and the grounds for that discrimination are as varied and as irrational as a premenstrual woman being asked to explain her obsession with shoes and chocolate ..... [Yeah, yeah, I know what I just did J] ...
And so, very often in life, we have to frame human behaviours within the rule of law in an attempt to impose some form of control in what would otherwise lead to real societal problems; it is an integral and much-needed requirement of civilised peoples to do this but sometimes do we go too far?
And I also believe we have come so far in this particular arena, we have now nudged it out of bounds in terms of real and meaningful discussion.
What do you think?