its all a matter of personal taste and comfort to be honest.
ive been playing for at least 13 years now and have tried pritty much every glove there is or has been and to be honest there isnt much in it.....you want to get something that you feel comfy playing in over everything else, then look for a glove that isnt going to fall apart too fast....ive known some gloves be hammered in a days playing. me personally ive found nothing better than knucklebone 'hitman' bmx gloves! ive had the same pair for at least 2 years without totaling them.
footware again is a very personal issue, ive played in everything from doc martins to trainers. it depends on the surface you are playing on too.
indoors i prefer trainers, skater types with decent grip, in mud and crap weather i go for a pair of digger 'extreme' cleats which i picked up at planet a few years back, good anckle support, leather, practically indestructable and above all damn good grip and water proof. for sup air i play in a pair of vans paintball shoes. ive always been a big fan of vans skaters and have worn those for 18 years at least (not the same pair tho) the paintball version are just as comfy, are water proof (as long as you dont jump in rivers) and grip very well on grass and astro.
i know a couple of people who will play in nothing but football boots and others who swear by dye cleats. its all down to the wearer.