Jay just to clarify.
When you use "..." to add a pause to the sentence, thats fine, and pauses are good, but you can just use "," (a comma) instead, and you only need one.
Even though sometimes it feels like it, the internet isn't serious business. If someone makes a comment that you think is an attack on you, sit back and dont worry yourself over it. The internet isnt serious business, its just a fun forum, chances are the guy didnt mean it, or you took it wrong. Either way, you have the ability to ignore whomever you wish to.