Posted on the other thread, too...
Heres my summary
Play for fun - you're a nobody
Play for real - you're somebody
Play too real - many pages of sh`t.
For the record, I like NK, and the ones I have met are nice "kidz".
In solely my opinion, from a far out 3rd person perspective, the person I would calm down is Conor - I dont have all the facts but I have heard rumour of things getting physical, which is never the answer.
Most people can appreciate how with Dave Stewart behind him he is a larger than life. If that energy can be focused more positively, then he has a huge potential, not just in paintball.